Are you a muslim mother who loves your child deeply, but sometimes feels confused, drained or frustrated by their behaviour?
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I came here for my kids and subhan Allah
I am feeling a kind of freedom I haven't felt in 9 long years.
Isra, mom of two, Bangalore
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Do you have a child who :
Is social, talkative, creative, but leaves a mess around the house, gets distracted easily, struggles to sit still even at the dinner table, and needs several reminders to complete basic chores?
Is creative, observant, and organised, but is shy, even with family members, gets overwhelmed when plans change or when things aren't done a certain way, and struggles to share toys?
Wants to do everything independently, is often blunt, impatient, quick to anger, resistant to instructions, and constantly challenges your authority?
Is calm, easygoing, and cooperative, but takes forever to get started, avoids conflict, resists change, and seems impossible to motivate?
Maybe you’ve wondered...
"Why is my child like this? Why don't they listen even after repeated reminders?"
"I want to respond calmly, yet I end up reacting and yelling."
Why do I struggle when other women seem to manage things all fine?
And sometimes... “Am I doing this right?”
Would you love to .....
Finally understand why your children ( or your husband) do what they do?
Stop reacting and start responding with calm and clarity?
Homeschool your child in a way that fits how they are actually wired?
Parent with confidence, ease, and far less frustration?
Understand, accept, and raise your child for who Allah created them to be?
Have harmony & peace at home
Then Embark Onto:
THE MIRACLES OF MIZAJ
The Miracles of Mizaj is a 4-day journey into
understanding how your child is wired by Allah
and learning how to parent and homeschool accordingly.
Scholars like Imam al-Ghazali, Ibn Sina, Ibn Rushd have suggested that,
Every child is different.
Yet we often expect every child to respond to the same parenting, discipline, and teaching methods.
The Miracles of Mizaj helps you understand your child’s natural temperament and adapt the way you guide them.
Understand your child
Discover how Allah created them, including their natural tendencies, preferences, strengths, and behaviour patterns.
Communicate in a way they understand, obey & follow through
Learn how to parent your child in ways that help them listen, understand, and co-operate happily.
Build greater peace and harmony at home
Replace unnecessary power struggles with understanding, cooperation, and a stronger connection.
Good parenting is not one-size-fits-all.
Understand the child, then tailor the way you guide them.
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This workshop is a must if you want to understand your child better,
help them confidently grow the skill set they already have
and improve your bond with them
Farzana, mom of five, Yemen
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WHAT'S INSIDE THE MIRACLES OF MIZAJ?
The Four Day Plan
DAY 1: YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR CHILD
You'll discover:
How your child is wired
The four temperaments
The Foundation of Rahman when raising kids
DAY 2: YOU PARENT THE WAY YOUR CHILD IS WIRED
Based on how your child is wired, you'll discover how to support:
Their physical growth, nutrition & sleep
Their Emotional development
Their academics and aqeedah
Their spiritual vulnerabilities & how to overcome them
DAY 3: YOU & YOUR CHILD THRIVES
You'll learn the top 3 strategies for parenting and homeschooling
your child based on their unique temperament.
You'll know what to change in the way you communicate, teach, motivate, guide, and respond to your child.
DAY 4: LIVE PRACTICE + Q&A
Practically applying your learning to your daily struggles.
You can start practising them from the very same day.
And bring your questions to the live Q&A.
What Will Change For You?
You will stop blaming yourself
for your reactions, yelling or everyday struggles &
start to see your unique strengths.
You’ll understand your husband, finally!
Understand why you clash, how he's wired and communicate effectively.
You'll stop blaming your child
and be able to correct their behaviour without yelling, hitting, threatening or hurting their self-confidence.
Harmony & Peace at Home
Replace unnecessary power struggles with understanding, cooperation, and a stronger connection.
💌 And here’s the best part:
you don't have to figure this out alone.
The Miracles of Mizaj is a live online workshop.
You'll be able to ask questions, reflect and practice
alongside other muslim parents.
And if you can't attend live?
Recordings will be shared.
We also have a WhatsApp community so you can ask questions
and stay connected beyond the live sessions.
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“It gave me a whole new perspective on myself and my family.
It helped me understand people’s strengths, and especially their weaknesses,
so I don’t shame myself or others for things
that are simply a part of our physiological makeup.”
Zahida, mom of three boys, Hyderabad
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BONUSES
Thoughtfully designed to give you more than just four days of learning.
Bonus 1: The Miracles Of Mizaj Workbook
A detailed, in-depth resource with -
a personalised Family Temperament Map: a detailed guide to understanding yourself, your husband, and each of your children.
all four temperaments traits and
forty answered FAQs from the programme.
Bonus 2 : Whatsapp Community
Your questions don't have to end when the workshop does.
You'll have access to the coach for 7 days, where you can ask questions and stay connected with the workshop community.
The child you're raising today
may carry what you teach them into the next generation.
Program details
Your Investment today:
INR 2999
For participants residing in India
$47 USD
For participants residing outside India
Choose the payment option that applies to your country of residence.
What's Included:
Your registration includes all four days of live group coaching, workshop resources and 7 days of dedicated WhatsApp group support.
Dates: 30th Nov - 3rd December 2026 (4 days)
Recordings: Yes, recordings will be shared
What Would It Take To Learn This On Your Own?
The study of temperament spans a deep body of knowledge explored across psychology, medicine, philosophy, and traditional scholarship.
I spent months researching, studying, and simplifying this subject so you don't have to spend years piecing it together yourself.
I've distilled that complexity into 4 practical days specifically for muslim parents and homeschoolers.
You get the depth of a much bigger body of work, made simple, practical, and accessible to parents.
Your child is an Amanah.
One day, we will be asked about how we cared for the children Allah entrusted to us.
And that requires understanding them.
You can spend years trying different parenting strategies.
You can keep wondering why your child is slow, distracted, stubborn, careless, emotional, or difficult to motivate.
Or you can learn to look beneath the behaviour.
“I Finally Understand Why We Are The Way We Are.”
These sisters uncovered their own temperament, their husband’s temperament, and their children’s temperaments within the first three days !!
.....and leant how to work with it.
By the end of these four days, you will have a clearer understanding of:
Why your child behaves the way they do.
What naturally motivates and energises them.
What may drain or overwhelm them.
How their temperament influences their preferences and learning.
How to respond to them more intentionally.
How to adapt your homeschooling approach around their unique nature.
How to recognise and develop their Allah-given strengths.
And how your own temperament may influence the way you parent.
Most importantly, you'll have a new lens through which to see both yourself and your child.
Know Your Coach
Dr. Asbah Shams, MBBS, MD, and NLP-certified coach, is a homeschooling mother of two and a productivity expert.
Her work centres around one core belief: we thrive when we understand how Allah created us and learn to work with our natural strengths rather than constantly working against them.
Your child is not a blank slate.
Your child was created with purpose.
Learn to understand how they were created.
Parent with clarity.
Homeschool with confidence.
Raise your child with understanding.
FAQs
No. You will learn to recognise temperament in yourself, your spouse and your children, and understand how it can shape the way you think, respond, communicate, learn and relate.
Yes. Instead of looking only at what your child is doing, you will learn to look at what their natural temperament may be telling you about their needs, motivations, learning style and responses.
Tremendously. You will learn how temperament can influence how a child learns, responds to structure, approaches tasks and stays motivated.
This can help you make more informed choices about how you teach, rather than constantly wondering, "Why does this work for one child but not the other?"
You will receive recordings of all four sessions, with downloadable links that you can save to your computer and keep for as long as you like.
Of course, I would still encourage you to attend live wherever possible, because that is where you can ask questions and apply the ideas with guidance.
You will have 7 days of WhatsApp support during and after the workshop, where you can ask your questions and discuss what you are learning.
There will also be one dedicated Q&A call where we can address questions that need a little more explanation.
Yes, you can begin observing natural temperament from a young age. We will also talk about how to distinguish temperament from age, developmental stage and normal childhood behaviour, so that you do not rush to put your little one into a box.
Dr. Asbah Shams, MD
drasbahshams.com